Sunday, July 15, 2007

trees and people

we're moving. when? we don't know. where? we don't know that either. but we've been looking for places for quite awhile. we've been in our teensy 1 BR apartment for 4 years and we really need more space. also, when R starts his new teacher job, he needs room to make & put his artwork, his school stuff, his student's school stuff that he's marking, etc. i mean, some place besides in a row of piles on the living room floor (if you've lived with an education student, i think you know what i'm talking about). no, i'm not complaining about him.... no, see, during the school year he can't put his stuff on the kitchen table because that's where all my junk is.

so, where to move to? we don't want to be in an apartment anymore so we've been checking out houses and townhouses. i don't care to live near the university anymore. this part of the city feels so.... i don't know. it's all concrete and brick. i want to live someplace where there are a lot of trees and people are out-and-about. so what if i have to take the bus to school? in 4th year, i only go to school 2 days/week anyways. and 3 days/week i'm at the hospital. so a house in wolseley? a townhouse in windsor park? who knows? it'll probably be for only a year anyways, because then i graduate and then who knows where we'll be.

but we're confused. there's this house in wolseley that we really really like. there's 2.5 bedrooms - a master bedroom, an art room and a small room for the office. there's a kitchen with room for a kitchen table in it. there's a garage. [no more brushing off the snow in the mornings]. there's an alarm system. there are a number of storage closets [ie. lots of SPACE!]. there are nice landlords. there's a laundry chute that goes from our 2nd storey place to the washer and dryer in the basement!!! it's really clean and well-kept and feels really nice. there's new appliances. there's a little fenced-in front lawn. it's right next door to some good friends of ours. and we really really like it.

the problem is, it's a lot of money. like, $200 more than what we're paying now. we could fit it into the budget..... but should we? are we just too infatuated with the idea of getting into a house that we'll do anything, pay anything? okay, we won't pay just anything. and judging by the prices of other houses in the area and elsewhere in the city, it's not really any more than other houses with 2.5 bedrooms. somehow we go hooked on to wolseley. i've always thought it would be wonderful to live there among all the tree-hugging hippies. it feels so rich and organic.

so yeah. we're still waiting to hear back from some other places on monday. but R and i think that we'll just apply for this place and see if we get it. there were other people who were looking at it yesterday too, so we need to get on the ball. but we feel like we have an upperhand because we are friends with the landlord's cousin [she gave us a good reference].
i guess the part that gets us confused is that we've never really had a real income and our budget has mostly just consisted of "let's spend as little as we can".

anyways.... what do you think, all you homeowners and renters?

2 comments:

jpunk5 said...

hmmm....we'll be praying about that.

here's something that popped into my head though...

like you guys, kimberly and i try to live as simply as possibly, and we try not to spend more than we need to, but, and this has nothing to do with wanting to spend more, but as you travel through life people tend to spend more, not because they're not trying to live simply, but, just because it happens. we're spending more now that we have a house, and we will be spending more once baby comes. when we started spending more i felt guilty at first because i'm all about saving, and living simply, but i realized that as life goes on you spend differently.

hopefully this makes a little bit of sense...

does this mean you should take that house? not necessarily.

anyways...no help from jonathan...

Geni said...

Ok. You and I had the same education in living simply and saving money and all that jazz. I know where you're coming from. However... when are you being practical and frugal, and when are you being unnecessarily cheap?

You guys are moving into a new phase in your lives together. Ryan is starting a career, and one that pays money. Like cash money that can be used for nicer living places. Plus, he's going to need a lot of space this year, if my guess is correct. Moving is not just a treat for you guys, its a necessity. Having truly nice surroundings actually improves your outlook, decreases stress, and will make this year an easier one. You're not done school, but you're working more, so you'll want a lovely place to come home and unwind in.

I say go for it. If you can afford it, go for it. It's a treat, yes, but it's not like you haven't worked and sacrificed your buns off for it, and it doesn't sound unreasonably extravagant, either.